When my grandmother (my mother’s mother) passed away, I spoke at her funeral on the idea of a legacy left behind. Her legacy of love, and compassion, and selflessness. I remember thinking at the time that I prepared to speak, that, THAT was all anyone should every really care to aspire to. To be an example for people to reflect on after you are gone. To love without expecting anything in return. To see the heart of others and empathize with the utmost care. After all these are the things that bind hearts together, that surmounts distances, that join generations; even after one generation has passed on.
“Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.” (Proverbs 31:28-29 KJV)
I am blessed. I know this. My grandmother passed a legacy to my mother, and my mother has passed that same legacy to me. In fact if I can even be a fraction of the woman my mother has been I will be forever thankful.
However, I often think of those who have not been left a legacy to be proud of. In fact there are so many people in this world that would just as soon forget the legacy they have been left. But, I would like to suggest that each of you ARE equally, if not MORE, blessed than I. We serve a God of choice. Therefore, even as you sit here reading this you can choose to redirect the legacy that you are already laying down. You can DECIDE to be the start of a NEW legacy for generations to come.
While this little thought is intended to be one in honor of Mother’s Day, I would also like for those of you who are not mothers to consider how this is applicable to you. Are you a teacher who can impact the lives of children daily? Are you a friend who can love and pray for those around you? Are you a father who can set the example for the rest of your family? Whoever you may be, what is your living legacy? Who are you at your core?
Happy Mother’s Day to each of the beautiful mothers in my life! I am blessed because of you.
and I am blessed because of you. Love you lots, honey.